Catching up is the wrong goal
After a bad week the instinct is to clear the backlog before resuming normal work. That means the restart is gated behind the hardest possible task, so it never happens.
Abandon catching up as a goal. The aim is to be operating accurately from today.
Take an honest inventory
Write down what is actually true now — not what you'd planned, but what's real. What's overdue, what's been silently dropped, what someone is waiting on and doesn't know is late.
This is uncomfortable and it is the whole exercise. Most of the weight of falling behind is not knowing the size of it.
Communicate before you're asked
For anything someone else is waiting on: tell them now, with a new date. One message each.
A proactively renegotiated deadline costs a fraction of a silently missed one, and the dread of the conversation is almost always worse than the conversation.
Restart with one item
Not a plan for the week. One task, today, small enough to finish.
Restarting is about re-establishing that you do things you said you'd do. That evidence is built by finishing something small, not by designing a recovery schedule.
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Frequently asked questions
Should I rebuild my whole system first?
No. Rebuilding the system is a comfortable way of not doing the work. Restart first with whatever you have; fix the system in a fortnight if it's still failing you.
What if I've fallen behind repeatedly?
Then the system probably demands more upkeep than you can sustain, and the fix is a lower-maintenance one rather than more discipline. If it comes with persistent low mood, that's worth raising with a professional.
How do I tell someone I missed a deadline?
State the fact, give a new date, and skip the explanation unless asked. "The report slipped — you'll have it Thursday" lands better than a paragraph of context.